Never Trust Anyone Completely With Your Children!


Remember Chikamso, the 8 years old girl who was raped and murdered by an undergraduate for rituals last week? Here are some facts you may not have known.

Chikamso's rapist and killer, Ifeanyi Dike, is her mother's cousin.

Little Chikamso has known and has been living with her killer since she was born. Ifeanyi Dike has been living with Chikamso's parents since he was 3 years old, now he is 24 years old. They took him in as their son and had been taking care of him as theirs since then. They were the ones sponsoring his university education before the incident.

Chikamso's average income earning parents use to give Ifeanyi weekly allowance between N2, 500 to N5,000. Unknown to them that he might have lots of money in his account, as he offered to bribe the vigilante group that caught him with 400,000 Naira. 

Why did I highlight these points? 

Most times those who harm our children or steal their innocence are those people our children are very familiar with, those who saw us pregnant with our children, those who live, wine and dine with us. They are usually people we trust, people we can never imagine can harm us or our precious children. They are usually family members, family friends, neighbours, religious leaders and teachers.

This post is a subtle reminder to all parents, TRUST NO ONE COMPLETELY with your children. Never let your guard down around people no matter how nice or harmless they seem. Parenting is indeed a huge responsibility. The worst type of enemies are household enemies, when they attack they are usually merciless.




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