When You Stoop to Conquer…
Now that you have probably come to terms with the fact that jealousy is a major problem and that it can wreck your relationship, what do you do with it? How do you fight it? How do you conquer it? 1. Acknowledge it: Don’t shy away from it, don’t excuse it, and don’t pass the bulk either; just acknowledge it. Take it for what it is – a poisonous spit that can rupture a wholesome, healthy and promising relationship, a keg of gunpowder that will, if untamed, explode and severe even the best of friends. See it as your own problem, not another’s, and be resolved to get rid of it. 2. Ask yourself where it is coming from: When your jealous emotions come out, all you know is that you are feeling that way. Fine. But you need to figure out where this is coming from. You need to discover why it makes you feel jealous. For instance, if you figured out that you get upset when your husband or wife talks with the opposite sex, then you will n...