Family Pornography Destroys Kids


A man has confessed that looking at his mother's nakedness and watching her undress made him become a chronic masturbator.  A Nigerian man, Kolawole Ladipo has shared an intriguing message to parents concerning some habits and sexual behaviours that could ruin the life of their kids.
In a recent post, he narrated how a boy became addicted to masturbation by always seeing her mother undress before him at an early age. Ladipo wrote: I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can't do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said: ''My mum caused all this for me''. Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how?

He said: "I started masturbation since when I was 4 years old; my mum has always been dressing up naked before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her, but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me.”
I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years; and my dad do shout on her: Send this boy out before you dress,' but my mum would always reply by saying: 'Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart.'

"Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body. I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex, heavy pornography and masturbation...''
How many parents are guilty of this? How many mothers dress up before their two years old son/daughter, thinking that he/she doesn't know anything yet? How cruel?

Some couples will even be having sex while their close-to-2-years old child will is in the room with them; they will feel and think that he/she can only see, he/she can't understand.

The truth however is that although the child does not understand, seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child.
Remember this is the jet age! How will you destroy your own children with your carelessness? Be warned! Be sensitive! Don't let your children see your nakedness. Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory, they may want to explore and experiment what they are seeing. Stop making free home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to watch. Be wise!!!

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